Ok, so the way I decided was that someone tugged on my heart strings by mentioning their game designing daughter, and who had a similarly weird childhood.  So,  newyorkgwythaint  who responded on the public blog wins the bracelet.

Here is an admittedly shitty picture of it.  Sadly they did not have an exclamation point bead, because those seem to be my thing.

Congrats, and thanks to those who responded.